Completely happy Mom’s Day to all of the mothers, mom figures, huge sisters, moms-to-be and dads filling each roles.

Being a dad or mum is not any joke, however probably the most rewarding jobs on the planet. It takes fixed compassion, respect and training to know our youngsters and the way they match into the quickly altering world – to not point out all of the planning, organizing, homework, sports activities, birthday events, play dates and SNACKS.

We’d prefer to suppose it’s each mom’s dream to have a relationship with their youngsters that’s unbreakable and constructed on belief, honesty and mutual respect. So when Lauryn bumped into Heidi and her daughter Maddie in San Diego, she needed to invite her on to speak all about their enviable mother-daughter relationship.

Heidi Dixon is a trend influencer, stylist, spouse AND, you guessed it…supermom. Her and her daughter Maddie have an admirable relationship, and after witnessing it first hand, Lauryn needed to have them on the weblog for Mom’s Day this 12 months.

From how one can create high quality time, instilling belief and respect to appreciating all of the choose ups and drop offs, Heidi is right here to inform us how she created an unimaginable bond along with her daughter and the way you are able to do it too.

Let’s welcome Heidi to the weblog.


Motherhood, itʼs the biggest love conceivable! Every thing from immense emotions of fear and guilt to an unseeable measure of failure or success. A lot of which isn’t actually in our management. Itʼs removed from something good and cuts deep at instances as a result of in any case, it looks like a mirrored image of us. Excited about what works in a dad or mum/baby relationship could be a totally loaded topic, it’s circumstantial and but, I’m wondering, can there be concepts that make these relationships work universally? I’ll share my ideas on what has been a outstanding journey in shaping the mom/daughter relationship I’ve right this moment.

My identify is Heidi, I grew up in a middle-class neighborhood in Utah. I used to be raised by a single mother who climbed the federal government ladder, beginning as a secretary within the 80s, to her retirement forty-plus years later. I had nannies who taught me how one can stroll, tie my sneakers and say my ABCʼs. Most days, the odor of my momʼs fragrance or occasional voice over the phone was the one indication she was round. She was at work earlier than the solar got here up and preoccupied by days finish. I’d simply describe my mother as a robust, decided, sensible, impartial, very strict, logical profession girl, who was a wonderful cook dinner.

She was fairly loving; nonetheless, her focus was totally on offering me the requirements one wants after which off to get pleasure from life. My father was a livestock investigator in Wyoming, and I noticed him each summer season. I used to be a metropolis lady with my mother and a cowgirl with my father. I realized how one can adapt and/or work out issues by myself, independently with little to no recommendation. I made many avoidable errors and didn’t have a transparent concept on what I needed or what alternatives I may have with little, to no steerage, all through my faculty years.

I clearly turned out simply positive, HA! However actually, I share this with such honesty primarily as a result of understanding the place we come from, analyzing what formed your life for higher or worse, is essential to understanding how or why you dad or mum the way in which you do. Right here I’ll share 5 areas on how I’ve created an incredible relationship with my now, fifteen-year-old daughter and some recommendations on the issues we like to do collectively.

The way to Construct an Unbreakable Bond Between Mom and Daughter

Time is sacrifice

Being current will not be a straightforward process, however it’s a actual privilege and builds a bond from the start. I believe that’s essential. Educating my daughter she will be able to come to me and the way to do this with honesty was a prime precedence from the start. It has actually paid off through the years. Belief builds early on of their lives and it requires your endurance, time and power. Having all of the shared high quality time collectively has introduced a lot understanding of who she is and who I’m to her, which helps us each within the decisions we make.

Discovering the standard time to be collectively is a lifelong journey. This seems to be completely different at every stage however an important factor at all ages, is routine and dependability. These two issues make all of the distinction and the sooner, the higher!

Suggestions: Speaking in mattress late at night time in any respect ages. Watching Gilmore Ladies (age 15) at present is our factor, so relatable and hilariously enjoyable; different sequence embody Emily in Paris, Succession and Undertaking Runway. We’ve watched exhibits collectively at all ages and it brings again quite a lot of good reminiscences.

Construct appreciation

To today my daughter appreciates the time now we have collectively, particularly since I work too. I frequently clarify how grateful I’m that I can do what I do for her and what it takes for me to do it. The listing is lengthy relating to the issues we do, giving an general sense to this understanding will reduce the shock later when the tide adjustments of their route.

Choosing up and dropping her off day by day from faculty and golf has been my factor and it’s difficult with my schedule however I make it work day by day. What I do know now, is there isn’t a changing what you get on these automobile rides collectively and tides change, the actual fact she drives subsequent 12 months, you possibly can’t go back- it goes by approach too quick!

Suggestions: Her sport is golf so we follow and play quite a lot of golf collectively; she made the Excessive College Varsity group as a freshman this 12 months and is forecasting future targets by way of this sport. We keep power in our personal exercises with Kim Kelly, she is enjoyable, upbeat and also you by no means understand how onerous you’re figuring out! She has an on-line platform when you’re not native to Southern CA. Kim additionally supplies us with supplemental assist and wellness motivation to our routines. She is superb!

Stability work

Rising up watching my mom’s dedication to her work was good for me and I used to be pleased with the profession girl she got here to be. I believe it’s vital to embody work ethic all through your life to allow them to imitate this of their future. Work ethic is the important thing right here, simply doing one thing that you’re captivated with makes a distinction, I notice that appears completely different for everybody.

I took a number of years off work to be extra targeted at house. After about three years, I needed to return to work. Itʼs vital to not really feel responsible about prioritizing different issues moreover them, itʼs wholesome to stability it out.

Suggestions: She earns allowance by way of chores. Buying collectively has positively change into our factor. At the moment, we stalk each TSC product Lauryn launches together with all her product options, we study a lot. Lauryn is the one purpose she is going to put on sunscreen after all of the years of me trying- hallelujah! It pays to have mentors. Maddie additionally ice rolls each morning earlier than her make-up routine. We love an excellent Sephora haul and the web “want” lists are lengthy. I’m fortunate as a result of as a stylist, I get to do her hair and we love getting our nails finished collectively each two weeks.


One subject that has extra opinions than a presidential debate; Telephones, screens, social media, and so on. they’re all a lifestyle now. I do know we’re right here to show our youngsters how one can be accountable, respectable, form, productive people, that don’t break their futures by negligence on social media.

We speak about all of it, why or why not, the implications of what could possibly be if finished flawed and the alternatives if finished proper. Details about media is occurring each day. It’s an animal that continues to morph. We glance by way of it collectively, now we have enjoyable with it and we each use the examples of what you see being put on the market to commentate on the impression it provides. Most certainly, in the event that they aren’t studying it from you, they’re studying it from someplace else they usually all need to be a part of it. I counsel beginning at age-appropriate ranges with completely different apps (you possibly can message me when you’re curious) and maintaining a tally of display time- even adults may use much less display time. Holding a deal with on it’s important.

Suggestions: Shopping Instagram and social media collectively retains it regular to see one another’s content material. We share Instagram reels and posts each day and there’s by no means hesitancy if I need to have a look at her telephone. We scour the newest skincare concepts and developments, mix our skincare routines and analysis 1,000,000 merchandise to attempt.

Belief and Mutual Respect

Getting clear, like actually clear, on what guidelines are versatile and why; and what guidelines are complete deal breakers and why- saves time and complications. We’ve chosen 3 “guidelines” which might be deal breakers. They fringe on issues of safety and/or (our) ethical requirements and these are to be completely revered and if not, she understands her life will, as she is aware of it, change. Every thing else is negotiable!

Making errors is crucial to all our progress, none of us are good, we’d like time to determine issues out and somebody who will be there to help us by way of it. So, for us when any of the opposite “guidelines” are damaged we discuss it out and I ask quite a lot of questions, giving full alternative to inform the reality. If fact is given, consequence is usually her alternative. Encouraging fact builds belief and the way you deal with the reality builds mutual respect.

Suggestions: Speaking about relationships of their lives and how one can navigate the intricacies of friendships begins very early. It will possibly start as early as third grade. Preach, educate, forecast, and repeat. I had quite a lot of expertise in navigating three’s-a-crowd situations and wildly, not regular cliques at too younger of an age. I’m completely open to debate if you need extra data, you possibly can message me on Instagram @heidixxon.

The best love conceivable is an advanced but lovely expertise; forming these delicate bonds are the true constructing blocks right into a connection and friendship that’s lifelong, so I finish it with this final thought: Acknowledging imperfections creates authenticity and loyalty, it builds respect since you are keen to not faux to be good. Think about the results of a considerate apology when wanted and ponder the results this could have for their very own wanted forgiveness with you. Emulating habits retains you within the driver seat of how they’re the reflection of you. It’s one of many few methods you’ll have your palms on the steering wheel of their life and when you’re fortunate, sooner or later, they may need to be identical to YOU!

Some assets I like to recommend: Untangled, Cory Muscara teachings and workshops, soul kind quiz.

Wishing you all a Completely happy Motherʼs Day!! XXO


We’re not crying, you’re crying. We hope you liked all these unimaginable methods to reinforce your relationship along with your daughter, or son, for that matter. Completely happy Mom’s Day to all you mom figures. Hopefully you’re spending YOUR day precisely as you need to.

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